357. The mother of one of your friends is planning on taking classes at the community college that you and her daughter attend. She is worried about not being able keep up and do well in the classes. What would you tell her? 358. Describe the connection of identity and intimacy within Erikson’s theory, and how it differs for males and females. 359. Explain the difference between primary and secondary control, give an example of a situation in which a person would use each, and why age affects which strategy is used.